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Thursday, July 3, 2008
The Fire of Seduction
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Having The POWER in Life & Love: Pure Energy!
(reprinted from an article by Brent Smith of AbsolutePowerdating.com)
I'm always telling you that it's your "energy"
that's the key to having an extraordinary life
but some of you are having a hard time grasping
the concept. So, I think it's time that I explain
it.
Here it goes:
Nobel Prize winning physicists have proven beyond
doubt that the physical world is one large sea of
energy that flashes into and out of being in
billionth's of a second, over and over again.
This is the world of quantum physics. They've
proven that thoughts are what put together and
hold together this ever-changing energy field into
the "objects" that you see. So why do you see a
person instead of a flashing cluster of energy?
Think of a movie reel. A movie is a collection of
about twenty-four frames a second. Each frame is
separated by a gap. However, because of the speed
at which one frame replaces another, your eyes get
cheated into thinking that you see a continuous
and moving picture.
Think of a television. A TV tube is simply a tube
with heaps of electrons hitting the screen in a
certain way, creating the illusion of form and
motion. This is what all objects are.
You have five physical senses:
Sight, sound, touch, smell, taste.
Each of these senses has a specific spectrum; for
example, a dog hears a different range of sound
than a human does; a snake sees a different
spectrum of light than you do; and so on. In
other words, your set of senses perceives the sea
of energy from a certain limited standpoint and
makes up an image from that. It's not complete,
nor is it accurate. It's just an interpretation.
All of your interpretations are solely based on an
"internal map" of reality and not the real truth.
Your "map" is a result of your personal life's
collective experiences.
Your thoughts are linked to this invisible energy
and they determine what the energy forms. Your
thoughts literally shift the universe on a
particle-by-particle basis to create your physical
life. Look around you. Everything you see in
your physical world started as an idea, an idea
that grew as it was shared and expressed, until it
grew enough into a physical object through any
number of steps. You literally become what you
think about most. Your life becomes what you have
imagined and believed in most. The world is
literally your mirror, enabling you to experience
in the physical plane what you hold as your
truth...until you change it. Quantum physics shows
us that the world is not the hard an unchangeable
thing it may appear to be. Instead, it's a very
fluid place, continuously built up using your
individual and collective thoughts. What you
think is "true" is really an illusion, almost like
a magic trick. Fortunately we've begun to uncover
the illusion and most importantly, how to change
it.
What is your body made of?
Nine systems including cardiovascular, nervous,
and skeletal systems.
What are those made up of?
Tissues and organs.
What are tissues and organs made of?
Cells.
What are cells made of?
Molecules.
What are molecules made of?
Atoms.
What are atoms made of?
Sub-atomic particles.
What are sub-atomic particles made of?
Energy!
You are pure energy. Energy that is constantly
changing beneath the surface, and you control it
all with your powerful mind.
If you could see yourself under a powerful
electron microscope and conduct other experiments
on yourself, you would see that you are made up of
a cluster of ever-changing energy in the form of
electrons, neutrons, photons, and so on. And so
is everything else around you. Quantum physics
tells us that it is the act of observing an object
that causes it to be there where and how we
observe it. An object does not exist
independently of its observer!
So, as you can see, your observation, your
attention to something, and your intention,
literally creates that thing. This is scientific
and proven. Your world is made up of spirit,
mind, and body. Each has a function that is
unique to it and not shared with the other. What
you see with your eyes and experience with your
body is the physical world-which we call BODY.
Body is an effect, created by a cause. This cause
is THOUGHT. Body cannot create. It can only
experience and be experienced; that is its unique
function.
Thought cannot experience-it can only make up,
create, and interpret. It needs a world of
relativity (the physical world, i.e. body) to
experience itself. SPIRIT is "all that is;" that
which gives life to THOUGHT and BODY. Body has no
power to create, although it gives the illusion of
power to do so. This illusion is the cause of
much of your frustration. Body is purely an
effect and has no power to cause or create.
The key to all of this information is how you
learn to see the universe differently than you do
now so that you can manifest everything you truly
desire. Change the way you look at things and the
things you look at will change.
Try it and let me know what happens!
"Unleash Who You're Capable of Being!"
www.new-alpha.com/unleashing_the_phoenix.html
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Everything You Need To Attract Beautiful Women
Let me ask you something.
Which of these is your biggest obstacle when trying to attract beautiful women to you:
1. Approaching Them
2. Knowing What to Say
3. Staying Relaxed
4. Getting Her Phone Number
5. Advancing Things To The Physical
6. Dude, I Have SO Much I Keep Doing Wrong I Don't Know Where To Start!
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Wednesday, July 2, 2008
How Would YOU Behave in This Situation?
We often like to think we're independent and are not easily influenced, but I really wonder if you would behave any differently than THESE people did in this situation?
I can not honestly say I would not have "conformed" like these gentlemen did.
I can recall having been influenced in similar ways and while I did not know why the "group" was doing something differently, I did as they did in an effort not to look stupid or to embarrass myself; I thought, "Maybe they know something I don't...I better do it like they're doing it, just in case."
One thing that I believe I would do today however, something I noticed the gentlemen in the video failed to do is, I would have ASKED the group why they were standing that way. I would have gotten information before complying. Again, I believe that I would...it's easy to say since I'm not actually IN the situation so I can't honestly know 100% that this is what I would do.
It does make you wonder though; In what ways are we influenced in similar ways and we may not even realize it?
In my eCourse "Unleashing The Phoenix" I talk about something that I have come to call "Subconscious Retention." In a nutshell it at last answers the question of why we do certain things a certain way and when we are asked why we do it that way we reply, "I've just always done it that way." At some point in our past, someone we saw as an authority figure, someone whom had opinions or words which were a strong influence on us, said something that had a lasting impression on us and we may have long forgotten the event.
This video brings up a question of if the same might be true of a collective influence? No one in this video TOLD the man to do what they did, they remained silent. Their actions however, as a group, "spoke" for them. I am of the opinion that had there just been one of these people on the elevator with either gentleman, and he or she had faced the opposite way it might not have had any influence at all and would have simply made the "mark" think the other person was a weirdo. But when two or more people are doing something the same and you are doing it differently, it seems to cause you to at least question the accuracy of the way YOU'RE doing it.
Ok, I've said a whole lot that simply amounts to: "Groups seem to influence individuals."
Take a serious look at things in your past, things that might strike you as similar to this elevator "experiment" in the video. And as you recall times when you found yourself behaving much like the gentlemen in the video, ask yourself the question, "Have I allowed those events to have a lasting impression, perhaps even in ways that I was not fully aware of until now?"
I asked myself this exact same question right after I watched the video, and I was able to recall a couple of times when the answer was "Yes."
How about you?
The truth is, we are often looking to the "masses" to let us know what is the "right" way, which is fine in my opinion. But what makes it become less than productive for us is when we do it without knowing WHY and not bothering to FIND OUT!
So as you go on from here, I invite you to remember this article and this video. And as you find yourself in situations that seem similar to this video, remember to remind yourself to ask WHY it is being done differently than you think it's supposed to be done. Get the knowledge, as it may be of use in ways other than this situation at the time.
Thank you for your time, my friend! Be well, and Live Unleashed!"
Michael
"Bishop"
"Unleash What You're Capable Of!"
www.new-alpha.com/unleashing_the_phoenix.html
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Tuesday, July 1, 2008
Secrets About Women Mom Never Taught You
During a recent private seduction consult, my client
asked me if women is attracted to funny,
playfully arrogant, challenging men, why does she raise
sons to be sweet, thoughtful and "nice."?
This is a VERY interesting question..
I'm going to give you my personal take on this.
But, more importantly, I'm going to talk about how
these kinds of paradoxes exist right in plain
sight all around us... and how to interpret them
so you can increase your own personal success with
women and dating.
I've spent a lot of time researching this
topic, and doing a lot of personal testing to see
if I could find some answers.
Right now, as I write this, I think that it
goes like this:
"Being Nice" in the way that we have come to know it,
usually means things like: giving compliments,
buying gifts, providing food, doing favors,
tolerating emotional manipulation, pretending to
be in a good mood even if you're not, etc.
I believe that this is mostly a SOCIALLY and
CULTURALLY CONSTRUCTED set of "rules". There may
be some "hard wiring" in us that makes us
"naturally" want to do nice things for women so
they'll give us approval, but I think it's mostly
PROGRAMMED into us...
Now, think about it this way: These "nice"
things are typically very FEMININE things to do...
So, what's a mom in today's culture going to
teach her son?
Of course... how to be "nice" to girls.
And, what if there's no dad around to help out
in the "training" of a son? You guessed it... even
MORE "nice" programming from mom.
The bottom line is that most of the people
walking around on this planet have NO IDEA how
ATTRACTION works, and therefore will never be able
to TEACH another person how this fabulous process
works.
This includes mothers. Mom loved you and wanted
the best for you, she just had no idea how to
explain what makes women feel ATTRACTION. Mom may
have gotten the tingles when she saw Clint
Eastwood shooting everyone... and Neil Diamond
running around with his sneer, hairy chest and
that pickle in his jeans... (and that reminds
me... EWWWWWW... your mom is gross, dude).
But, this doesn't mean that she can or would
explain to her boy how to make this happen with
other women!
Check this out: If you would like to learn my
own PERSONAL secrets for how to overcome this
problem of not knowing how to become a man who
NATURALLY attracts women, then you should go here
NOW:
http://www.new-alpha.com/unleashing_the_phoenix.html
OK. Let's talk about what we can actually LEARN
from this kind of phenomenon.
The thing that really fascinates me about
people is THEIR ABILITY TO HAVE NO IDEA WHAT'S
GOING ON... even though it's going on IN PLAIN
SIGHT ALL AROUND THEM... and the even MORE amazing
tendency to ARGUE VIOLENTLY WHEN one of these
OBVIOUS THINGS IS PRESENTED TO THEM.
I've read some fascinating books about the
concept of "self-deception", and I've come to
realize that we humans have an amazing capacity
for not seeing what's there... to the point where
it can be very bad for us.
Like I just said, we often ARGUE about things
that are OBVIOUS to others... which makes it even
worse.
I need to stop ranting and raving, and land the
plane on this one...
This mechanism is, of course, a survival
mechanism that helps us to weed out all of the
useless information that's coming in through our
senses at any given time, but it can go overboard
and prevent us from seeing USEFUL information as
well.
Next Point: A lot of our cultural and social
programming is "off-base" to some degree, which
causes us to see things and interpret things
incorrectly when we do see them.
Finally, we humans don't like to change our
beliefs about things. We don't like to admit that
we might be wrong in the first place, and we feel
unstable or insecure when we realize that a
fundamental truth we have held all our life is
incorrect.
Lump all of this together, and you have moms
who teach their sons the "proper" way to act and
men who have NO IDEA how to be successful with
women... and then women who REALLY get upset when
you actually start teaching men what WORKS to
attract women (for more evidence of this, just
read some of these newsletters I'm sending you!)
Wow, I'm really going on an unusually
intellectual rant today! Nice. This is making me
feel pretty smart... I think I'll keep it up...
So, what's all this information good for?
Well, to start off, I think that it's important
in life to continually question YOUR OWN beliefs
about how things work and what is possible.
I think it's also good to constantly question
your LIMITING beliefs.
Unfortunately, most people do the opposite...
they question their ability to succeed and they
doubt their own ability to get what they want.
Most people constantly "self-sabotage"
themselves.
If instead, you question your LIMITATIONS and
your LIMITING BELIEFS, and you constantly look
with your own eyes to see if there's something
going on that nobody mentioned to you, then you'll
begin to see things that will blow your mind.
It took me about 4 or 5 years to realize that
ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE. But as soon as I say
it, you can immediately get what I'm talking
about, and maybe even have a profound realization
that will lead to success.
The phrase "Attraction Isn't A Choice" makes
you have the "ah ha" that you can't make a woman
feel attraction for you by CONVINCING her... so
you STOP.
Now, I didn't figure this out by having someone
TELL it to me. I figured it out by questioning the
things I was hearing, and by following my own
intuition that there was a SOLUTION to this puzzle
called "women and dating".
So, here's a "home work" assignment for you:
1 - Write down all of the things that SHOULD work
when it comes to making women feel attracted to
you. This might include buying gifts and food,
giving constant compliments, and acting "nice".
2 - Write down your own personal experience of
what ACTUALLY HAPPENS when you do these "socially
correct things that mom taught you" with women.
3 - Pretend for a moment that everything you've
been taught about women is wrong. Furthermore,
pretend that women are actually wired in REVERSE.
If this were true, what kinds of things would
result in a woman feeling ATTRACTION for a man?
Does this open up some new possibilities for
you?
I invite you to question "common sense" and
"what your mother taught you" about women.
I also invite you to come and learn some of the
VERY ILLOGICAL, YET INCREDIBLY POWERFUL techniques
that I've learned, developed, refined, and
described in my Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD
program.
The ideas that I've just discussed are part of
what I consider to be the "Inner Game" of dating
success.
Most guys spend almost NO time working on their
Inner Game... instead, they spend time learning
things like "pick up lines" and other almost
USELESS stuff.
If you don't have your "Inner Game" together,
you'll never be effective with "techniques and
tricks".
In my Fire of Seduction eCourse, I
share one Inner Game technique after another... showing you how to
overcome fear, improve your self image and self
esteem... and get past limiting beliefs that stop
you from even TRYING to meet women.
If you're like me, and you've had a lot of
negative programming earlier in life, then you
MUST get that stuff handled. It's not going to
handle itself... YOU have to do it.
And this eCourse will show you EXACTLY how.
Oh... and it will also teach you TONS of great
"in the field" techniques for approaching women,
starting conversations, getting dates, meeting
women online, and taking things to a "physical"
level smoothly and easily... without rejection.
http://www.new-alpha.com/seduction.htm
-I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
Michael
"Bishop"
www.new-alpha.com
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Angelina Jolie & Her Million Dollar Placenta
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(Photo courtesy of The Superficial. www.THESUPERFICIAL.com)
Angelina Jolie was admitted to Lenval Hospital in Nice today, and will reportedly remain remain there until popping out the wonder twins...no, I don't mean her boobs!
I predict that once the babies are born we will learn of a bidding war for Angelina's placenta. Furthermore, I predict the price will hit in the six figures, if not a full million!
Ok, now we wait.
Michael
"Bishop"
"Attracting Beautiful Women Just Got Easier!"
www.new-alpha.com/seduction.com
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Monday, June 30, 2008
From The First Meeting To The Bedroom
When I first started learning about how to meet women, I realized that
there were some major 'problem areas' that I had to deal with.
After learning how to handle them myself, I realized that almost ALL
men have these same stumbling blocks. Here I hope to help you see these
areas and improve the ones that you need help with.
To begin with, let me explain what I mean by a 'Progression Moment.'
These are the moments in time where you have to do something to
advance to the next level.
For instance: If you're with a woman and you're having a great
conversation, you might want to take the relationship to a physical level.
Most men I know are not sure how to 'transition' into this next phase.
Or let's say you see a woman that you'd like to meet, and you have to
decided whether or not you're going to walk over and say hello. This is a
critical moment. If you don't do it, you probably won't get another chance.
I know one guy who meets a lot of women. Women really seem to like
him when they first meet him. He can get dates, and get them to come
home with him. But every time he tries to get physical with a woman, she
decides that it's time to leave.
I know another guy who meets women everywhere we go. Women just
love him. They laugh and joke with him. But he never asks any of them for
their phone number, so he doesn't date any of them.
The problem with Critical Moments is that they almost ALWAYS require
the man to take initiative and do something that can be REJECTED by the
woman. For instance, walking up and saying hello, asking for a date, kissing
her, etc.
In all of these situations, a man has to go through the possibility of
rejection. This keeps most men from even trying. And most guys have at
least one or two areas that they're not confident about.
If you're not confident and know exactly where you're going and what
you're doing, you're going to be likely to make a mistake, say something
wrong, and cause the woman to reject you at one of these important turning
points.
The danger, of course, is that if a man makes a mistake at one of these
key times that offends the woman, she may decide to leave.
Every new relationship is like a complex puzzle. You can make it
through many steps, then make a mistake and have it all fall apart. Are you
with me?
Here's my list of the Critical Moments:
1. Approach (Walking over and saying hello)
2. Digits (Getting a phone number, email address, etc.)
3. Date request (This can actually be done when you first meet)
4. Date (The actual time with her)
5. Hold hands (The first sustained physical contact)
6. Kiss (The first 'intimate' contact)
7. Alone in private (Trust)
8. Make out (Sexually aroused)
9. Clothes off (Very sexually aroused)
10. Sex (Very very very sexually aroused!)
As far as I'm concerned, if a person needs improvement in an area of
life, they usually need to learn a new SKILL. Too many people make the
mistake of thinking that something's wrong with them, and that they'll never
be able to overcome their obstacle. Just remember, it's all about learning a
new skill to overcome each obstacle.
So I've taken each of these different Critical Moments and created what
I call a 'Bridge' for each.
Let me explain what a Bridge is.
Before each Critical moment, there are certain things that happen.
These often set up the Critical Moment that is about to follow.
For instance, if you're talking to a woman on the telephone, and you
want to ask her for a coffee date, what happens on that phone call will
largely determine whether or not she meets you.
Or if you are on a date, and you'd like to kiss her, her mood and level of
enjoyment is going to determine whether or not she's going to be receptive
to a kiss.
The times 'between' Progression Moments are Bridges. If you set up the
progressive moment correctly, you will be much more likely to be successful than
if you don't. If you learn all of my 'Bridge Strategies' this will help you move
smoothly from one Critical Moment to the next.
And the best part about some of my Bridge techniques is that they
CAUSE HER to take the initiative and go to the next level. For instance, if
you're alone with a woman who you've already kissed, and you'd like to
make out with her, you can use my 'smelling her' technique.
By taking a few minutes and smelling her neck and shoulders, she'll
usually get so turned on that she grabs you and makes out with you right
there! (Of course, you'll want to push her away and tease her a bit, because
this will amplify her desire even more - and it will be fun for both of you!)
Probably the most important Bridge is between talking and getting
physical. Most men just don't know how to advance to a physical level. But
I'm getting ahead of myself here. More later.
Bridge To #1, The Approach
Probably the most important concept that I talk about when
approaching women is how you feel inside.
The fact is that nowadays women are very sensitive to any 'lines' that
sound canned or corny. The way to meet women is to walk over and start a
normal conversation. If you've read my book, you know that I don't think it's
a good idea to give too many compliments early on. But it's fine to say "Hi, I
just wanted to tell you... you have great shoes" etc. and then start talking.
The key is, do something NORMAL. This reminds me of the movie
"Butch Cassidy And The Sundance Kid" with Paul Newman. At one point in
the movie they said "OK, so the con is that we're going straight?" Most
women have secret fantasies about running into Prince Charming at the
grocery store or Blockbuster. Women have an instant resistance to men who
try to be 'slick.' So don't do it.
Now, what's the key to being calm and normal?
The key is confidence and poise. You have to learn how to be confident
in these situations.
I was surprised to find out that most women are actually pretty nice
when you approach them. Especially if you're not acting like a stalker or a
guy who hasn't been with a woman in 10 years.
In other articles on this blog I explain how to get this confidence and what to
say when you first meet a woman. But for now, just realize that this is a
Critical Moment, and you need to learn how to handle it. If you don't get this
one handled, all the rest are irrelevant.
Bridge To #2, Getting Her Number
The key to this Bridge is to learn how to be interesting and funny. In
"Fire of Seduction" you'll read about the 'Playful Arrogance' concept that I created.
This makes conversations interesting to women. Don't worry if you don't own a copy of it yet, I have several articles on this blog that you can use to get started. using this concept.
The next part is to know EXACTLY what you're going to say and
EXACTLY how you're going to say it. I say "Do you have email?" If they say
'Yes' then I treat that like a yes that they'll give it to me, and give them a
pen. Then, WHILE THEY'RE IN THE MIDDLE OF WRITING I say "And go
ahead and write down your number there too." It comes across natural and
smooth. But you have to learn the words and mentally rehearse to get it
perfect. So do that.
Bridge To #3, The Date Request
The idea here is to keep up the playfully arrogant personality that you
learned in Fire of Seduction, and add the other magic ingredient: The
Friendship Frame.
When you talk to a woman about meeting for coffee or lunch etc. it's
important to say "Well, let's get together and make FRIENDS. If nothing
else, you sound like you might make a nice FRIEND." The psychology behind
this is explained in detail in my book, but the effect is stunning. Most women
can't believe that a man could actually be interested in getting to know them
as a friend. And it also causes them to say "Hmmm... I wonder if he's
attracted to me?" This works in your favor. You have to learn the words and
practice, but this will really pay off for you. Learn the Friendship Frame.
Bridge To #4, The Date
When you're preparing to meet a woman for the first 'Date' (and this
can be just for coffee, to go for a walk, watch a movie... whatever) you need
to do a few key things. You MUST be as clean as possible.
In my book I recommend washing 3 times in the shower, and using a
nice light cologne. Wear clean, comfortable clothes, etc. Brush the teeth, use
floss and mouthwash. You have to make a good impression. Most guys that
have problems at this stage are trying too hard. It's a paradox, but you have
to stay very cool and calm when you first meet a woman - and act almost
indifferent. This quality is attractive to women.
Bridge To #5: Holding Hands
I personally think that it's a good idea to hold a woman's hand for
awhile before kissing, etc. This conveys to the woman that you are a warm,
friendly person, and someone she can trust.
The interesting thing about hand holding is that men think that hand
holding means "She wants to have sex" and women think that it means "Oh,
he's a nice guy."
Once you're holding hands, it's very easy to move to kissing, etc.
Here's how:
In Fire of Seduction, and in other articles on this blog, I talk about learning a few good 'cold reading'
methods. These can be anything from palmistry to handwriting analysis to
astrology. Women LOVE this stuff.
An important one to learn is Palmistry, as it leads to you touching her
hands! If you then learn a bit about hand massage and reflexology, you can
naturally lead into a discussion about hands and pressure points, and start
to give her a hand massage right there. When you're finished, you just keep
holding her hand. It works so perfectly.
I've shown this to several of my buddies - and they LOVE IT. It is so
smooth and nice for a woman.
Bridge To #6: Kissing
If I've been talking to a girl, and I want to know if she's ready to be
kissed, I'll reach over and touch her hair while we're talking and make a
comment about it. I'll say "Your hair looks so soft" and just touch the tips of
it.
If she smiles and appears to like what she's hearing, I then reach back
over and start stroking it again while talking to her. If she likes this, I know
that she would be receptive to a kiss.
Now, this may sound simple, but I've done something very
sophisticated from the WOMAN'S perspective. After years of research and
experience, I've learned that women like to have the idea that they are IN
CONTROL of the situation.
By using The Kiss Test I've been kind and complimentary, but by being
very SUBTLE about it, I haven't given her anything she can object to.
You can imagine that if you've just finished holding her hand for awhile,
this is almost natural!
I think that the car is a great place for a first kiss...
Bridge To #7: Being Alone With Her
This Bridge is all about trust.
If she trusts you, and feels safe, she'll be OK with the idea of being
alone with you. Do you see how everything fits together? Each step flows
smoothly into the next.
Here's what I do:
As I mentioned in other articles on this blog, it's important to not seem too
eager for anything. I like to have a woman meet me at my place, then leave
from there to go for coffee. Then, when we come back, I look at my watch
and say "Well... OK, you can come in for a minute."
This is great, because it kind of makes it seem like she was trying to
talk me into it! Because I don't seem too anxious, she'll usually say "OK."
Other ways you can do this are by telling her that you want her to meet
your dog (no not that one) or telling her about something you want to show
her (again, not that - save that for later). If you talked about your art
collection at coffee, then it's natural for her to come see it. Remember, the
key here is TRUST. So be trustworthy.
Bridge To #8: Making Out
Once you're inside (your place or hers) you need to Bridge into making
out. Just because a woman kisses you, it doesn't mean that she's hot for
your bod right then and there. You have to help her work up to that.
Men are on/off switches, and women are volume knobs. So work on this
one slowly and with patience.
Here's how:
The first thing to do is NOTHING. You need to take 10 or 15 minutes
and sit back and be only interested in talking. As a matter of fact, sit far
away from her, or lean back if you're next to her. This sends the message
that you're not just horning in for the kill. (Hey, you can actually have an
interesting conversation if you want, it's OK).
Next, when you've both shared a nice laugh together, and the energy is
good, reach back over and give her another kiss.
This time, whisper in her ear that she smells really good. Then start to
smell her neck and shoulders. This one is a time bomb!
If you can learn to just smell a woman's neck and shoulders for about
10 minutes WITHOUT KISSING HER you will blow her mind. Women LOVE to
be smelled, and it instantly turns them on.
I'm about to teach you a couple of killer moves, so get ready.
In the animal kingdom, different animals have different signals that tell
the other that they're interested. When some of these signals are sent by
the male, the females actually BECOME PARALYZED and freeze in a sexually
aroused position.
Women have this same mechanism... shhhhhhh!
Here are the things that trigger it:
1. Pulling her hair gently (run your hand up the back of her neck into
her hair, then make a fist and pull lightly).
2. Biting her neck gently (no Dracula here, just lightly).
3. Breathing in her ear and whispering.
4. Kissing her neck.
If you take some time smelling her, she will start to get turned on. Then
it's time to try one of the above to take her to the next level! This is when
you can start gently rubbing her breasts, etc. and go with some heavy
petting.
Bridge To #9: Clothes Off
I have found that many women are shy, self conscious, and nervous
about taking their clothes off. If you know how to overcome this, it will
obviously help you have more sex.
I just mentioned a few techniques for making a woman literally
paralyzed with stimulation. Here's where you want to really turn up the
volume. It's time to use these one after another.
Compliments also work well at this point. Since most women are self
conscious about their bodies, a simple "I think you have such a sexy body"
will work wonders. Women often need to know that you find them attractive.
Now you can start taking off the clothes... first shirt, then bra, then
pants... etc. Go slowly, and if she stops you, just take that as a signal that
you need to keep up the smelling, neck kissing, ear breathing, etc.
NEVER keep going if a woman says "Stop." But stop doesn't usually
mean "Stop and go away," it usually means "Stop, I need you to turn me on
some more."
(I hate to have to do this, but there are some men who don't get it,
so... don't force yourself on women! If she's not into you, leave. Don't be a
dumb-ass, and don't date rape women!)
So just keep talking sexy to her, kissing, etc. Then try again. The more
turned on she gets, the more the clothes come off.
Bridge To #10: Sex
The most important part of the Bridge to sex is being prepared!
Sometimes a guy will ask me "What do I do once I get her back to my
place?"
I ask them "Do you keep your bed made?" and "Do you have condoms
in the house?"
Usually, I can find at least one thing that would make it almost
impossible for them to succeed with a woman!
So be ready! Buy condoms, make sure your house is neat and bed is
made... be prepared! Think through what is going to have to happen in order
for you to follow through once a woman is there and the situation is right.
Ok... on to the specifics:
I've personally found that if you get a woman turned on enough, she'll
take the initiative and signal that she's ready.
This signal can be anything from rubbing her hips against you to
grabbing your crotch, etc. I don't like to push women... I like them to get so
turned on that they say "Please." And I'm not kidding!
I learned from a friend that if you start, then stop, then start, then
stop... she'll get REALLY turned on. So do that! Women love a challenge,
and if you can be a challenge in this area, then you're the man!
So kiss her body for awhile, then stop. Then kiss her neck. Then stop.
Then breathe in her ear... then stop. You get it. If you're patient, she'll
eventually do something blatant that says "OK, enough! I'm ready!"
So now you understand the concept of Progression Moments.
I encourage you to take a few minutes right now and write down where
you need improvement. Then take the time to learn the SKILLS you need to
do better in those areas. I know it can be done. You just have to do it!
I hope you've enjoyed this and learned from it.
What I have just shared with you took me YEARS of effort and patience to get right. And since life has been good to me for several years now, I wanted to "give something back" and possibly save YOU years of frustrations and disappointments.
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Thank you for coming along with me on this adventure, I hope you had fun!
We'll talk again soon, my friend!
Michael
"Bishop"
www.new-alpha.com
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